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The A & B logic part 2
0Lets see. People are telling me I do not make sense in my previous post regarding A and B logic in Have you ever feel?
That person I heard from is Hong Wei and he made a post about it as well.
Let imagine this happen, you being the A and another guy being the B.
A: Can you help me do this?
B: No
After a while
B: Can you help me do this?
A: …… Yes….
Why did you say yes?
Let me quote a few phrases from my wushu Teacher-In-Charge from her blog.
in certain circumstances, you do not wish to disappoint pple and u will have the tendancy to give in to them.it maybe due to seniority, once they flare up, you have to give in.and u will always be their obedient girl/boy, who do not dare to speak up and get wat u want.u will always live in the way they want u to be and if u dare to step out of the standard they have given u to live up to, there will be critisims against u, for eg ‘you have turn into a rotten egg’,'y are u in this way…’ or ‘ u are such a disgrace/failure’ etc.so,u will be the same old u, who do not have the courage to do things u want. results? you are not doing things for yourself.
1. Avoid disappointment by opposite party.
2. Seniority
3. Do not dare to oppose
4. Afraid criticisms
5. Living up to standard
Some of the reasons on why A ( you ) has to say YES.
Has this ever happen to you?
Have you ever feel?
0Have this ever happen to you, be it you are A or B?
A: Hey, can you please help me do this? / Can you please do this?
B: No
After a while… … … …
B: Hey, please do this for me?
A: Ok
OR
A: Hey, can you please help me do this? / Can you please do this?
B: Ok
After a while… … … …
B: Hey, please do this for me?
A: No
When someone request something and you do it for him yet when you ask something back, nothing come back. There is a chinese saying, 人善被人欺. It means when someone is kind, he is bound to be bullied easily. I really think that this is very very true. This type of thing happen very often and this will “pull you down into the water” easily as this will deter you from advancing any further. It is bad water if you ask me. Be it study, wushu and whatever you are doing.
Think about what is said.
Its been a long time since I blog.
0大家好, 好久不见.
我好久没有 blog 了。 哈哈。我也不知为什么我今天会想用华文和英文来 blog。因为我所知道的汉语拼音不多所以这华语都听起来的想知道更多请看我用英文所 blog 的。
今天真的好累阿! 很早的时候， 我 9.30am 就去宏伟的家。我们说好一起去剪头发。
剪好头发后，我们一起去吃了早餐。过后， 我们一起去了武总因为我须要帮我的武术朋友买2007年全国武术观摩会的门票。宏伟就去了武术练习。
我去了Plaza Singapura 和 Clarke Quay 走走去过后来我倒回武总去找宏伟去买皮包。
告诉你一的秘密、因为我的汉语拼音不好，所以我花了要20分钟来打这华文字! 哈
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Wow, it certainly took me very long to type it in chinese even though it is such a summarised one. HAHA.
I woke up at 9.00am as I have to meet Hong Wei for a haircut at 9.30am. I was late but well we made an appointment with the Hair cutter at 10.00am so it was all fine. I had a good haircut I guess. Decided not to do inner cut, haha. We went opposide side wanting to eat pig organ breakfast but eh, no place to sit so went to a Malay/ Indian shop to eat Roti Prata. Ordered 2 plain while Hong Wei ordered 1 plain and 1 egg. We ordered tea as our drink. It is very cheap only $4.40. 
. Went to buy some pimple cream with Hong Wei and I went back home afterwhich. It is at late 11.30am already.
We met again at around 12.20am going to the wushu federation. I go there to buy tickets for my school’s juniors as we ask if they are interested in watching the demo. Bought a total of 6 tickets but I am not sitting with them as I already got mine from wufang. Saw Yu Juan but she doesn’t seem to happy, when she asked ( well, she didn’t ask but she meant to ) me to carry a bag of bag yet I look at her with a weird look. Well I think i shouldn’t hold what is suppose to give to their coach…She is a cheerful person yet she seem sad this afternoon. I being a man not offering help, make me feel quite bad… I am sorry anyway… Hong Wei and me went to buy…. socks. He forgets to bring for training… ARR. I then went to PS and Clarke Quay for a walk. I saw coach Wen Yeow there, wanted to greet him but he went missing when I went downstairs to find him. Saw this Apple Authorized Reseller shop and went in to look at the MacBook. To be honest, I am not very impressed by the design of the keyboard of MacBook but I think I shall get an Apple Laptop, Macbook or Macbookpro when Mac OS X Leopard ( is it called like this? ) is out so I can run Window and Mac together. I am still not confident in running a totally unknown OS.
Went back to the wushu federation to meet up with Hong Wei to buy wallet. Went Kovan then Hougang Mall. Guess who I saw at Hougang Mall? Ryan, a wufang kid who I always talk to, at Hougang Mall with his Dad. I am very surprised as he who lives at Jurong came to Hougang to buy things? Haha. Bought a new wallet, haha!
I heard something very meaningful today. I shall type this out tomorrow as I am very tired today. 
I am very sick…
0After a lot people who I knew had fallen sick, its now my turn who is sick. It all started on Thursday night when my throat is a bit sore and the next day morning which is yesterday. I feel very sick but I still went to school. The 2 periods I have is all in Air-Con room and this is a nightmare. Me, Hong Wei and Benjamin then went to eat and I really have no energy to even finish eating it. I have a lot trouble even to walk back home with them.
When I reach home, I am really too weak and tired so I slept but I cannot even sleep well. My whole body is so hot and tired then I ‘woke up’ later without getting any sleep. I stayed in toilet for a while and I vomitted 4 tmes in there. I didn’t even manage to sleep well last night. The feeling is really bad…
I have no energy to type any further.. cya.
Quote
0I was doing a website and this quote suddenly came to me.
Avoiding a problem, avoiding a done mistake does not prevent it from coming to you in the future again and procrastinating it will make the matter worse and worse till the point where you cannot cure it anymore.
-Guo Hong
It is similar to the
Avoiding a problem does not mean the problem is not present.
Samsung z240 phone
0I had changed my phone to Samsung z240. My mother gave it to me as she got it for free as M1 is having this “promotion”.
Just to post it here.
Random
0First of all, I bought a new mouse branded “edvan”, well I never heard of this brand before but my mother forced me to buy one as my “ex Memorex mouse” don’t listen to my command sometime. I am going to buy a Razer mouse soon when I have enough.
When I was back from Malaysia, I check some of my wesbites, mainly the proxies, all of them went down even before I manage to move them and my new server isn’t up yet. I am going to set the new server up after I can get the “Invalid License File”problem to clear off from the whm and sell the proxies off. I lost quite an amount due to this downtime..eh… I will see what I can do for now.
Wushu competition schedule are out….I will be competiting on a Thursday… Good luck to me hehe. 12 people in my event, I am the 10th
I went to Malaysia because my uncle is celebrating his “70th” birthday and in chinese saying, We will all have to celebrate it with him as a family so he will be happy forever.
This is the picture of the cake, I will upload more when I get them.
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To Do list
1. Revise
2. Make Blog layout
3. Make notes
Important VS Urgent
0A lot people had asked me before, how do I manage my position at IFSZ as support staff, my wushu trainings (which is 6 times + a week), school and my online stuffs. I never knew how to answer them as I don’t have a definate answer at all only until today when Mr Simen Lourds, Prinicpal of Montfort Secondary School, gave a speech.
He gave us a simple 4 sided square but I edited it a bit as I didn’t really like it but anyway the idea behind it is the same. The world is all about relativity. When there is a plus, there is a minus so when you can be urgent, you can be not urgent and likewise when something can be important, it also can be not important. Lets make thing simple. Lets just divide our task into 4 simple catergories
- Important
- Not Important
- Urgent
- Not Urgent
It had to fall in either 1 and 3 or 1 and 4 or 2 and 3 or 2 and 4. So to make things easier. It will be something like this.
After dividing our task, we should always do the important and urgent tasks first followed by important and not urgent one. It has been illusioned in the figure above. The number in red shows which we should do first and as followed.
When you know what is important in life, you can save a lot of time by doing those important stuffs first.
Oh, by the way, reading this blog is important and urgent.
Have a good day.
To-do list
01. Change the look at this blog.
2. Add friends’ link
3. Find out how the Post Image modification works
4. File up all documents
5. Read all my unread mails.
6. Get a new mouse.
