Have you ever feel?

Have this ever happen to you, be it you are A or B?

A: Hey, can you please help me do this? / Can you please do this?
B: No
After a while… … … …
B: Hey, please do this for me?
A: Ok

OR

A: Hey, can you please help me do this? / Can you please do this?
B: Ok
After a while… … … …
B: Hey, please do this for me?
A: No

When someone request something and you do it for him yet when you ask something back, nothing come back. There is a chinese saying, 人善被人欺. It means when someone is kind, he is bound to be bullied easily. I really think that this is very very true. This type of thing happen very often and this will “pull you down into the water” easily as this will deter you from advancing any further. It is bad water if you ask me. Be it study, wushu and whatever you are doing.

Think about what is said.